Why Narcissists Play the Victim (and 7 Examples That Reveal the Pattern) Narcissists crave control, admiration, and a spotless image. But when things don’t go their way or they’re held accountable, they often flip the script and play the victim. Why? Because victimhood is a powerful tool—it deflects blame, gains sympathy, and allows them to avoid responsibility while painting others as the problem. Playing the victim helps the narcissist: * Avoid consequences * Regain control of the narrative *

Ever been told you’re “too sensitive” after being hurt? That’s not humor — that’s gaslighting. This is how narcissists twist your emotions, making you doubt your right to feel pain. Watch this first example from our Gaslighting Explained series to see how trivializing works and how to stop it before it breaks your confidence. If this feels familiar, you’re not overreacting. You’re waking up. Follow Victim to Warrior for more examples. If you send us a message with the word “GASLIT,” we’ll send y

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